You tend to mimic the behaviors, patterns and mindset of those you surround yourself with. If you are not where you want to be, and struggling with a mindset of insecurity and people telling you "it can't be done" - only a sorry excuse for not taking action in their own lives - whether it be weight loss, breaking an addiction, moving cross-country or getting out of a comfort-blanket relationship, or whatnot, then perhaps it's time to STOP reinforcing the negative self-talk by continuing to ask those of your friends for advice, who are STILL STUCK in the fear zone.
After-all, they will only accentuate your own fears, which is the last thing anyone needs in this world - more fear, abusive self-talk and a general I-will-take-no-action-but-just-complain-why-my-life-is-tougher-than-everyone-else's victim attitude.
After-all, they will only accentuate your own fears, which is the last thing anyone needs in this world - more fear, abusive self-talk and a general I-will-take-no-action-but-just-complain-why-my-life-is-tougher-than-everyone-else's victim attitude.
Ask for advice - but don't necessarily take it. Rather observe and learn from those who walk the talk. Talk less, observe more... like animals in nature do. Simple, but it works.
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